Remaining Empowered After Months of Job Searching

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One of the most draining experiences one can endure is the job search. While it may seem like a piece of cake to draw up a few resumes and cover letters, search jobs and submit the documentation, the entire process can wear a person down over time. This is especially true if the search takes longer than a few months.

If you have been searching for a job for a while and are tired, feeling discouraged, and just want a break, it’s time to employ some rules that will help you to stop overextending yourself. So before you begin your search again, take a look at some self-care techniques to help you feel replenished and empowered.

Remember that Job Seeking is a Job Within Itself

Many people take for granted the amount of energy required to conduct a job search. You are participating in a new activity that your body and mind simply aren’t used to. This means, you have to get yourself used to performing these tasks everyday – almost like learning to ride a bike. Over time, you can get tired of the job search just as you can a job you work every day. So give yourself breaks in between, and even give yourself room to adapt to your “learning curve.”

Take Care of Your Entire Self

You may be used to thinking of yourself as a “worker” and now that you’re out of work and searching for employment, you’re struggling to regroup. This is the perfect time to get to know and take care of your entire self physically, emotionally and mentally.

For instance, you might have been accustomed to physical activities before you started your last job, but let those die down as you traded them for hard days at work. Now that you have some time again, build yourself back up physically by participating in an activity you love whether its aerobics, basketball, tennis, or even bowling. Also, it’s good to watch your diet. By reducing the sugars and salts and increasing the fresh fruits and veggies, you’ll find yourself perking up considerably. Remember, when you work your body, you rejuvenate the mind and feel better in the process.

On the emotional side of things, it’s good to pay attention to how you’re feeling during your job search. If you feel down-and-out or emotionally drained, it’s good to journal about your experiences to help get them out of your system and provide a way to encourage yourself through the process. Being mentally drained is also a common occurrence during a job search, which is why it’s a good idea focus on activities like yoga and meditation to calm the mind.

Conducting a job search for a long period of time is definitely a tall order. It’s something you don’t want to take for granted because the wear and tear can drain you before you know it. So while you’re vigorously searching for work, make sure to explore how you’re feeling physically, mentally and emotionally. This will help to prepare you for not just the job search, but also interviews, and essentially your first day on your new job.

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  • Debbie Normore
    Debbie Normore
    I appreciate all the advice and comments I have read on here. ?I am staying positive and hopeful for work. ?I will pray that everyone is able to find a solution to their problem and financial struggles.
  • casino s.
    casino s.
    everyone can relate mainly to JG Dean and Linda. I was unemployed for nearly eight years here in Michigan as an accountant. Of course, I have some work part time (very little) and worked part time for Wal-Mart for four years, but time is not complete. I am 50 years old and can not even get an interview.
  • Valerie Walters
    Valerie Walters
    This is a very encouraging article but I agree with JG Dean and Linda Hill.  I have been out of work for a year and Canada is no different than the US. there are no jobs not even in the retail sector due to our strong looney.  I am also close to sixty so you know what that means.  I am getting more & more frustrated and really don't know what to do.  I really don't have the energy for recreational activities and no money for that either. Still thanks for the article. Good luck everybody job searching and those who have jobs hang on to them tightly.
  • Sharie Foster
    Sharie Foster
    Thank you for this article.  I am a business litigation secretary searching for temp or permanent work for the past 1 year and 4 months.  There has been none.  In 2007 layoffs began in my field, in 2008 a couple of large business law firms closed outright, in 2009 over 800 attorneys and staff were "layed off" as several large firms reduced staff to accommodate the lower business load; and according to my agent, "it's still happening."  Nevertheless, it's personally validating to know there are so many other well-qualified job seekers trying to get through this and on to a new job.  While hope is in no way to be underestimated, it doesn't pay the bills, but I am grateful for the encouragement I've found in reading all the replies.  Best wishes to you all for a new job ASAP!
  • Bulus Gambo
    Bulus Gambo
    Physically,during my job search, i do participate in events like basketball, tennis etc.Emotionally i do spend writing in my journal on my experiences, and mentally mediation and other activities. Thank you for this article.
  • Janet
    Janet
    Hang in there!
  • Ken Zergoski
    Ken Zergoski
    I can relate to everyone especially JG Dean and Linda, I have been out of work for almost 8 years here in Michigan as an Accountant. Sure, I have a few part-time assignments (very few) and have worked part-time at Wal-Mart for 4 years, but there is nothing full-time. I am 50 years old and cannot even get an interview.  Sure I get calls for being a financial advisor, but they want you to train at zero dollars and then work on straight commission. I wish you all the best of well wishes and the best job results possible.  Ken
  • C
    C
    JG Dean and Linda Hill, hang in there.  Here is hoping that something good will come to both of you.
  • Linda Hill
    Linda Hill
    I understand the frustration of JG Dean. I have been looking for a job for six months and I am getting more and more depressed about the entire ordeal. Unfortunately, once you get to this stage of depression no amount of exercise can make you feel better when don't feel like getting out of bed. I can no longer do the things that I like to do because there is no more money, so I sit around online job searching. And, without much success.  Occasional interviews but the type of work I have many years of experience in is mostly held by men and they are the ones getting the jobs...not this qualified experienced woman. All I can do is continue searching. By the way I am in warehouse and materials management.
  • JG Dean
    JG Dean
    Laid off! Not me! I've always had a job! Today, at the pharmacy drive-up window, the cashier asked why I was only getting 6 of the prescribed 30 pills... my response "I am a statistic of the recession... a "laid-off" college professor...on a strict budget!Nine months have elapsed... and the only employment I can find is part-time adjunct. With my savings gone, house in foreclosure... this has been the most horrible experience this handicapped, single father of two precious primary school age daughters has ever faced.Sure this article lends "hope" to job-seekers... however... there are those of us who cannot "exercise, travel, play or socialize our way out of depression.Agreed... looking for full time work is a full time job!However, no amount of "tweaking" a resume, sprucing up a cover letter, brushing up on interviewing skills, studying potential employer web sites or any other "job seeker" tip will, or can produce a job that's unavailable.As cynical as I may sound... please realize... this IS reality.  Almost 10 percent of the American population is unemployed!  Furthermore... that is just the number of us who have filed for benefits... it does not include the scores of other unemployed souls or those who are no longer eligible for UI benefits!  With household bills of over $3000.00 a month... UI benefits of $309.00 per week won't even begin to cover my Rx's, let alone my mortgages.Is there an end to this comment... sure! Hang in there! You are NOT alone!
  • thabo khumalo
    thabo khumalo
    I am looking for a job as i am more exposed in the Production Manufacturing environment as a QC and i am currently 8 to 9 years in the quality field industries. with production supervision experience and introduction to ISO 9001-2000 qualifications.
  • Barbara Kuegele
    Barbara Kuegele
    I appreciate all the information you provided. I am wondering what happened to employment agencies. The only thing I can find is temp-to-hire, as well as headhunters who specialize in management positions. I am interested in general office or data entry positions, not administration or management.Please let me know in what direction I need to go. By the way, I live in Fort Worth Texas.Thank you.
  • Hilda Mathis
    Hilda Mathis
    In your job search take time to pick up some magazines that interest you.  I was reading the AAA World magazine and found a place that was newly opening up and that will offer a job lead for me.  Check out chamber of commerces in areas where you want to work.  You can find out what new companies are opening and which ones are closing.
  • Dawn
    Dawn
    It is good to stay disciplined I agree in fact I wish there was a support group for the unemployed!  If you don't know anyone how do you network?  Keep doing what you enjoy like exercise and fun. Take a break if you feel discouraged and always stay sharp on your interview skills.  It is hard when you put all your efforts and you get a NO.
  • margaret king
    margaret king
    I appreciate this article; it gives hope, encouragement and good advice on how to do positive things for yourself, while enduring a long search for a new job.  How you take care of yourself is so important, and sometimes care of ourselves gets put on the back burner.  All job seekers and (especially those who have jobs), should purposely plan good nuition for themselves and journal and make time for activities that keep their bodies and minds in top condition, because doing so will guarantee you will be in tip-top shape for that interview and hopefully that new job!

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